My aunt was combing my hair and I guess it wasn't cooperating. She said something in-frustration, which lead to the following exchange:
"This hair is actin' so niggerish!"That was news to me.
"I guess it has to since it belongs to one.”
“Your hair belongs to what?”
“Me. A nigger.”
“No, baby. You’re not a nigger.”
I guess that's one of the side-effects of Black families casually tossing that word around.
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You had hair? :)
Ok, I know that wasn't the point of the post. But at least she assured you that you aren't one of "them", right? *sigh* I know, I know. We must do better.
I think we toss around those terms without thinking how they will really affect people. At least your aunt tried to make it better.
I had a similar type of experience in Trinidad as a teen. My older cousin told me to get out of the sun because I didn't want to get "dark". I was like hell yah I do that's why I am sitting out here, but she meant I should try to preserve my "light" skin by staying out of the sun. It's all so crazy to me.
Yeah. I'm glad she corrected me and I'm hopeful that she gained something from the experience. Still, I know that many in my family have used that word rather liberally in the years since.
There's so much that "our" children are exposed to, of which I think many of us are unaware. I'd like to see more deliberation and explanation within our community.
That's on a whole other format that you were able to get clue like that and have it stick. Big ups to your aunt.
We do toss it around pretty liberally (can we blame Rap City in the Basement and other forms of media? Probably).
I'd posit that the freedom to toss it around rests more with our generation than, say, Ma and Pop Dukes (I remember when Ma Dukes went upside my head the first time she heard me drop it).
Solid post, bruh. You should animate this, and get it into BET Animations rotation.
I wonder what your hair was doing that conjured up the word "niggerish" for your aunt. : )
Clarence: Thanks.
angie: Nothing special. It was just nappy, I think.
Like Treach from Naughty said:
"That's happy to be nappy!!!"
Dont you just love it when older people make simple, yet profound statements? I wrote a post about something my dad said to be recently - check it out!
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We do toss it around pretty liberally (can we blame Rap City in the Basement and other forms of media? Probably).
Something hit me while re-reading The Autobiography of an Ex-Coloured Man by Paul Weldon Johnson--this isn't even as new as we may think it is--Johnson's unnamed narrator has guys in New York City throwing it around casually in what I imagine is the late 1800s/early 1900s--the novel doesn't tie events down to a specific year.
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