As I've said in previous blog entries, women aren't just children that we try to give a little freedom and treat like adults, once in a while. They are adults who choose to get with people who do some of the same fucked-up (or even wonderful) kinds of things that they like to do.
'doug said: "She's become nothing but trashy since the two of them [Britney and Kevin Federline] got together."
West said: I don't think Britney became trashy, after or as a result of her husband, any more than Whitney became ghetto because of hers.
I'm confident that both already had more in-common with their men than their rose-colored-glasses-wearing audiences would prefer to admit.
As old as Whitney is, though, people are still blaming Bobby Brown for her choices. I guess I shouldn't expect Britney's situation to be any different.'
Obviously, none of us have to like those choices, but they are owned by the women who make them.